I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. There are other ways. Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you.

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Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. We have 2 school age children. More success stories All success stories Hide success stories. He's now in his 3rd year of a 4 year residency program and is hoping to do a 2 year fellowship next. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. It has hit me that this relationship is a double standard wherein since we are not married yet, he is not obligated to help me, yet he says once I'm done with my boards and match into residency, we will get married. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. Honestly, it isn't her fault.
If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. Signs of Male Attraction: Reading a Man's Body Language. I have read half of all the comments and decided to skip the rest. Then we can at least cuddle and go to bed together. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. Tips Mormon girls are much like other girls their age, in that they want guys to respect them and treat them well. No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision.
After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. My dream in life as cliche as it sounds is to be happy, and to raise a family - be one of those home mums who goes to school meetings, and award nights, and bakes cakes for their kids school fares. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. Read that entire speech and you will see a slew of racist statements. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel.